Few things I have learned lately in these impossible times, you made my yesterday and today possible, thank you for the hugs, the words and the books, there’s nothing like that in times of distress. I remember that:
-It is dark because you are trying too hard.
-Most of the dealing time belongs to conversation. Swim with someone willing to go deep in your waters.
-Success is a decision.
-Every time you choose to not act on your anger, you’re rewriting your brain to become calmer and more compassionate.
-Your biggest enemy is your uncontrolled mind.
Selbstwehr 
Here is a post i just read this morning :
“In a love relation, as Jung once put it, you risk everything. You put yourself on a table, you stop the power game and the trying to dominate or conquer the other person. If you succeed in really loving the other person, if you really relate, then all sorts of miracles happen. But in the beginning stages a general state of blindness possesses you, illusions or wrong expectations, disappointments, recriminations. You have to work through all that first. And that’s how you become more conscious. I didn’t say it is agreeable. So if you don’t love the other, you run away after a while.”
–Marie Louise Von Franz, Récréation: the wonderful story of Wolfgang Pauli, C.G. Jung and “the” woman
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There is no timeline on healing and in fact we are in a constant state of breaking, healing, and strengthening…over and over again…Be kind with yourself my love.
You know that constant lighthouse even if does not follow you to the sea and seems lost in the horizon no matter how bright, will always be there and is one of life’s mysteries and blessings.